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Old 05-29-2009, 08:57 AM
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Re: Tattoos-What do ya think?

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Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa View Post
Really? On what do you base your judgement?

Are you saying no minister is qualified to comment until his own children have passed the age of 20?

MOW's covenant of earrings and NO tattoos is unbiblical, and unwise.

Since you reason MOW's sons are grown, older than mine, do you suggest I follow MOW's lead? It seems whatever he tried to do failed. If you go back and re-read MOW's post, MOW tells us his boys BROKE said covenant with their pastor and father. In view of this, I should still follow his lead? Again, because his children reached the age of 20 before mine?

I don't understand how a failed compromise of a contract (which carried no dire consequences that we know of) can be a template we all should rally behind. MOW "the boys' father" thought tattoos were unacceptable to him. MOW makes a covenant with the boys. This covenant states earrings may be worn at the committing to the contract only if tattoos are not worn.

This is a compromise which failed to deter the boys from breaking a contract with their father and pastor.

I don't need 20 year old children to understand a flawed premise.

I was raised around individuals who had parents who smoked reefers with them in attempts to deter them from doing harder substances with other people. It didn't work with any of them.

If the father didn't wear earrings himself, to allow his children to wear them to deter the wearing of a more permanent item, (that he doesn't wear), sends a message the father's laws are subject to change through pressure.

So, do you believe all ministers and councilors must have raised their children to adulthood to be able to judge between a right and a wrong concerning their own children?

In Jesus name

Brother Benincasa

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The point is someone who has not raised their kids to adulthood does not have the experience to know what works and what doesn't. My wife and I tease my oldest that he is our practice child to see what works. I am convinced that a good upbringing is very beneficial to a child however I am equally convinced that their is no formula by which you can raise kids to do exactly as you want them to act as adults. I have seen to many kids who grew up in the same families go completely different directions.

God created Adam and Eve perfect and yet they failed, does that make God a bad Father for placing the tree in the Garden?
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