[Jesusistheonly]

their aren't many standards for men to follow as far as dress.

I think the question is, 'Do you believe the standards are biblical and correct?'

If you are convinced that the doctrine is correct you should live out your convictions regardless of what your husband believes. Our sole goal is to please God. We encourage participation and involvement, but not at the expense of letting go of holiness standards, that would just not be Apostolic at all, nor biblical.