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MissBrattified 11-11-2010 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Dedicated Mind (Post 986467)
the latter and what's the big deal? I have been single and celibate for 10 years. So I'm not knockin ya Renda.

:toofunny

Then why is this even a problem for you???????

It's most definitely NOT your business if other people have sex on Sundays. If you're single, and you have no vested interest in this discussion, then why start the thread? It's certainly not ever your place to determine whether the rest of the married couples in the church are allowed to have sex before they attend church.

scotty 11-11-2010 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 986534)
but there is not a lot of fighting, judging, and name calling and casting doubt on each other's salvation like some of our threads

and I don't think anyone has received an infraction

LOVE -- the universal language.

No church tonight, so no need for infractions.

berkeley 11-11-2010 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Socialite (Post 986486)
How do people in celibacy, fulfill the needs of the body with integrity? Dicey question, I know.

Celibate people have a reputation of being grumpy. Is that a false stereotype?

When does morning start, btw? When you wake up? I mean, if Saturday night gets lengthy, am I then guilty of it being morning? Are you still convinced what you are saying is biblical?

Lot's of graphic dreams, or lots of asking for forgiveness.

berkeley 11-11-2010 02:45 PM

Re: Sex On Church Day
 
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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 986536)
:toofunny

Then why is this even a problem for you???????

It's most definitely NOT your business if other people have sex on Sundays. If you're single, and you have no vested interest in this discussion, then why start the thread? It's certainly not ever your place to determine whether the rest of the married couples in the church are allowed to have sex before they attend church.

He is covetous.

Socialite 11-11-2010 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Dedicated Mind (Post 986510)
Why don't you ask Christ how he fulfilled his celibacy, or Paul.
It's not impossible and it gets easier with time. The obvious answer is masturbation in case you didn't know. Welcome to human kind.

I can't ask Paul. He's not exactly taking questions.

How do you keep masturbation "pure." How does it not become sexual fantasy about others, pornography, etc?

(Is this grown-up talk allowed?)

berkeley 11-11-2010 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Socialite (Post 986541)

How do you keep masturbation "pure." How does it not become sexual fantasy about others, pornography, etc?

It's not possible.

Socialite 11-11-2010 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by nahkoe (Post 986513)
Love the questions. :D

I dunno the answers. I've been single for 6 years. I've done some things during that time that I wouldn't do again. Right now I'm telling God it would be nice if He would make another man from scratch cuz I doubt there's one that already exists who would take on my family...but, I would really like to try this marriage thing again....soon. And trust me, it's not the home repairs I'd like help with....

:toofunny

I understand... and I'd expect a single mother and a single bachelor to have different experiences.

berkeley 11-11-2010 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Berkley (Post 986542)
It's not possible.

Well, very possible to leave porn out of it.

MissBrattified 11-11-2010 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Socialite (Post 986465)
Where does the husband have to consider hers? What version you reading? :ursofunny

This is something that takes compromise for sure.

Oh boy, now we are getting more off track.

I Corinthians 7:3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

:coffee2

I love the fact that the NT church was open minded enough to realize there were some women who enjoyed sex (enough to demand it or "need" it from their husbands)! :D Paul took time out to tell husbands they had to give their wives what they wanted, conjugally speaking. Awesome.

Socialite 11-11-2010 02:47 PM

Re: Sex On Church Day
 
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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 986514)
but masturbation is considered sinful by some preachers

(probably by some that say you should not have any type sex on church days)

:ursofunny

I've never laughed so far than on this thread. Thanks guys! (RandyWayne inlcluded)


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